To men oral sex is a testament to exactly how much they suggest for your requirements and trust. Seriously it’s a actually big thing to them like providing you with attention or causing you to feel loved. Not to imply, every man is similar to that but there are tons which do require that as being a bonding thing. Its like we really enjoy hearing they are into us that they really enjoy it. We equate the reality that We love a man to bite my throat into the throws of passion to him seeing me personally being so fired up that I just require his guy bonnet within my lips. It’s all about passion being ready to do an act that seems good and it is a big trust exercise if you believe about any of it. Further more yes you may need boundaries. N, o you don’t want to hate every man which you date to any extent further since you dated a douche case onetime. Recall the three hits your out rule…he does not value you or some time (strike one), He interrupts you, talks over you, or ignores you whenever you state “stop it” (hit two), the very first time he lies (hit 3) he could be gone. Avoid being a doormat you matter equally as much as he 
does so when long as you respect him and then he respects you then there should not be a concern. Good luck sweetie we am therefore sorry you managed I was young that I have been there too when.